Strongest people became weak and weak people become strong eventually at some point in life.That is how thing things are,its nature nothing is to be blamed.Strong people were at some point very weak but they had to be strong since they say
you dont know how strong you are until being strong is the only option.Strong people can fight wars basing on the inspiration within them.There is always something within that keeps them going and that can be dreams,responsibilities or pain at some point.
Weak people were at once very strong and at some point they never thought that they will become weak.but due to some reason they broke down,they gave up,maybe they didn't want to but nature made them to.
Some of this reason can be:being unappreciated,lack of moral support,results took longer than it was supposed to be and pride.
But strong people,some of them handle disappointments differently,there are those who break down immediately they are faced with the storm and there are those who fall later.I know you have met those people who have lost their loved ones and they claimed that they are not affected immediately psychologically but later you can meet them and they are depressed.like the son of late 3rd president of kenya jimmy kibaki when he lost his dad,he said that his fathers death will hit him after burial.
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I guess the strong people who use such criteria to survive are the one who become the weakest because they break down when no one is watching and hence they lack moral support and psychological support because most of them cannot talk about it in open conversations because they will be mocked in the pretext that they are holding to much on the past instead of moving on,yet this is the time its hitting them(that past experience.)
If your are footballer the best example we can use is a team in English premier league chelsea football club. In their season 2021/2022 they had an amaizing performance under their new coach Thomas tuchel.Everything was moving on well until the demise of Ukraine and russia.
the club was affected because its owner was a russian and i guess you know why,everyone knew thats how chelsea is going to loose it all because everyone will be affected.
But surprisingly instead of chelsea falling apart they stood together and stayed focused and they recorded wins match in match out.People were skeptical because they expected the to loose, they thought the players,manager and stakeholders would give up on them but that was not the case.
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They stayed strong despite the challenges since they had an inspiration burning unside them and a goal to stay focused,and at this moment fans came out to pray and support them fully.they cried why goverments wants to destroy a club that was a dream for many,job for many and a heartbeat for many.
But after a few matches later Chelsea started breaking down.the strong individuals slowly started breaking down.the light at the end of the tunnel began to fade away.
The result we no longer satisfying.being beaten by the teams no one expected.
My point is the the strong can be the weakest and the weak to become the strongest they need to go back to drawing board and figure it a fresh
On how to stay strong again and this may take some time and also it will mean that the relevant support must be there for things to work.
Individually work on yourself and stay as positive as possible.have that one thing that keeps you going.
The whole point is The strongest can become weak and the weak can be the strongest,its just a matter of time.
By The GREAT IMBOYWA MICHAEL
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